{"id":851,"date":"2007-08-13T11:43:54","date_gmt":"2007-08-13T19:43:54","guid":{"rendered":"\/?p=851"},"modified":"2007-08-13T11:49:27","modified_gmt":"2007-08-13T19:49:27","slug":"digital-gifts-for-my-digital-birthday","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.identityblog.com\/?p=851","title":{"rendered":"Digital gifts for my digital birthday"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>When I do a telephone transfer at my bank, they ask me to prove I&#39;m legitimate by giving them a few pieces of information &#8211;&nbsp;including my&nbsp;birth date.&nbsp; I also know that&nbsp;by combining&nbsp;birth date, surname and zip code, marketers can uniquely identify&nbsp;almost the whole&nbsp;population.&nbsp; To my way of thinking, this&nbsp;puts it in the same class&nbsp;as&nbsp;a social security number, and I&#39;m careful about who I give it to.<\/p>\n<p>So when signing up for Facebook I&nbsp;didn&#39;t consider <strong>for one moment<\/strong>&nbsp;the idea of publishing my&nbsp;natural birth date.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;Nor did I read the terms of service.&nbsp; If sites hide away their terms of service, I figure that means&nbsp;they don&#39;t expect me&nbsp;to read them anyway.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>I enter what I think of as my current <em>digital birth date<\/em>.&nbsp;&nbsp;I never reveal my natural birth date&nbsp;unless&nbsp;some&nbsp;clear need&nbsp;for knowing it is conveyed to me by&nbsp;the site I&#39;m visiting.&nbsp;&nbsp;<a href=\"\/?p=354\"> Law 2.&nbsp; Minimal Disclosure<\/a>.&nbsp; I take my inspiration from <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Jack_Benny\">Jack Benny<\/a>.&nbsp; My photo makes it clear I&#39;m no spring chicken.<\/p>\n<p>Moreover,&nbsp;I&#39;ll continue&nbsp;doing things&nbsp;this way until sites are willing to encrypt, audit, provide a usage statement and indemnify me for loss or misuse.&nbsp; Oh, and one more thing &#8211; they have to agree to stop treating me as though my age reveals my tastes (for example,&nbsp;stop assuming I&nbsp;never grew out of&nbsp;the Beatles).&nbsp; I&#39;ll be revealing my age,&nbsp;but I think of&nbsp;this as &#8220;ageism&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" vspace=\"5\" width=\"500\" src=\"\/wp-content\/images\/2007\/08\/birthdate.jpg\" hspace=\"5\" alt=\"Facebook DOB error\" height=\"118\" style=\"width: 500px; height: 118px\" title=\"Facebook DOB error\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I have to admit I had a small&nbsp;moment of reflection when I received a flood of Facebook birthday greetings and it wasn&#39;t my&nbsp;natural birthday (thanks folks!)&nbsp; Especially when one of them was from my sister.&nbsp; But hey.&nbsp; These are my digital friends, and my digital birthday is just as good as&nbsp;any other.&nbsp; It&#39;s the thought that counts, and I found it touching.<\/p>\n<p>So you can see that I&#39;m just a less&nbsp;contemplative person than <a href=\"http:\/\/eternaloptimist.wordpress.com\/about\/\">Pamela Dingle<\/a>, who got me to fess up by <a href=\"http:\/\/eternaloptimist.wordpress.com\/2007\/08\/01\/breaking-the-tos-before-you-even-start\/\">writing this piece<\/a>:&nbsp;<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Today I actually for just ONE single minute paused to seriously contemplate the consequences of lying on a Web 2.0 registration form.<\/p>\n<p>The site that caused this momentary lapse in common sense was Facebook:<\/p>\n<p>It turns out that I don\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t want to supply my correct date of birth to Facebook. I would have been more than happy to assert that I was over 13 \u00e2\u20ac\u201d but a complete DOB is just too much information. And yet \u00e2\u20ac\u201d if I lie, I\u00e2\u20ac\u2122m violating the terms of service:<br \/>\n<span style=\"margin-left: 30px\"><br \/>\n<a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/terms.php\" title=\"Facebook TOS\"><font color=\"#52759a\">Facebook<\/font><\/a>: \u00e2\u20ac\u0153\u00e2\u20ac\u00a6you agree to (a) provide accurate, current and complete information about you as may be prompted by any registration forms on the Site (\u00e2\u20ac\u009dRegistration Data\u00e2\u20ac\u009d); (b) maintain the security of your password and identification; (c) maintain and promptly update the Registration Data, and any other information you provide to Company, to keep it accurate, current and complete;\u00e2\u20ac\u009d<br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p>I started wondering &#8211; does this mean I can\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t register a pseudonym on Facebook? Am I only legally able to register my \u00e2\u20ac\u0153real\u00e2\u20ac\u009d name? And if this is the case, what about all the other sites that I have pseudonymous names registered at?<\/p>\n<p>Who knows, IASNAL (I am *so* not a lawyer) but if you were to ask me, it seems like the majority of accounts I have registered at the following sites are already in violation of the TOS:<span style=\"margin-left: 30px\"><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/flickr.com\/terms.gne\" title=\"Flickr TOS\"><font color=\"#52759a\">Flickr<\/font><\/a>: \u00e2\u20ac\u0153\u00e2\u20ac\u00a6provide true, accurate, current and complete information about yourself as prompted by the Service\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s registration form\u00e2\u20ac\u009d<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/multiply.com\/info\/tos\" title=\"Multiply TOS\" class=\"broken_link\"><font color=\"#52759a\">Multiply<\/font><\/a>: \u00e2\u20ac\u0153\u00e2\u20ac\u00a6provide certain limited information about you as prompted to do so by the Service (such information to be current, complete and accurate)\u00e2\u20ac\u009d<\/p>\n<p><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/web.sourceforge.com\/terms.php\" title=\"Slashdot TOS\" class=\"broken_link\"><font color=\"#52759a\">Slashdot<\/font><\/a>: \u00e2\u20ac\u0153personally provide true, accurate, current and complete information on the SourceForge Site\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s registration form (collectively, the \u00e2\u20ac\u0153Registration Data\u00e2\u20ac\u009d) and (2) maintain and promptly update the Registration Data as necessary to keep it true, accurate, current and complete. If, after investigation, SourceForge has reasonable grounds to suspect that any user\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s information is untrue, inaccurate, not current or incomplete, SourceForge may suspend or terminate that user\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s account and prohibit any and all current or future use of the SourceForge Sites (or any portion thereof) by that user other than as expressly provided herein.\u00e2\u20ac\u009d<\/p>\n<p><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/www.google.com\/accounts\/TOS\" title=\"Google TOS\"><font color=\"#52759a\">Google Mail<\/font><\/a>: \u00e2\u20ac\u01535.1 In order to access certain Services, you may be required to provide information about yourself (such as identification or contact details) as part of the registration process for the Service, or as part of your continued use of the Services. You agree that any registration information you give to Google will always be accurate, correct and up to date.\u00e2\u20ac\u009d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>One site where I chose not to lie (and see no point in a pseudonymous account), is LinkedIn. I gave correct naming information to LinkedIn, but was not required to enter a date of birth, and so had no reason to pause during registration. I find it interesting that sites like Slashdot and sites like Facebook or LinkedIn have similar terms of use, even when usage is obviously quite different.<\/p>\n<p>What do you all think? Do these TOS\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s technically ban pseudonyms but not enforce? Does it matter? Oh, and if I ever remember to get around to finishing that Facebook registration, I hope to be at least a hundred and two years old, don\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t be shocked\u00e2\u20ac\u00a6<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Some of the comments on Pam&#39;s blog talk about these matters in terms of anonymity.&nbsp; I want it to be clear.&nbsp; I&#39;m not personally trying to be anonymous.&nbsp; I just don&#39;t want to disclose&nbsp;personal information that&nbsp;is not required in the circumstances.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A birthday confession arguing respect for the Law of Minimal Disclosure<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":68,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[49,6,17,3,11],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.identityblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/851"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.identityblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.identityblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.identityblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/68"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.identityblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=851"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.identityblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/851\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.identityblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=851"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.identityblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=851"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.identityblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=851"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}